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  1. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Not being stereotypically feminine doesn't mean you're genderqueer. It also doesn't mean you aren't. No magic answers here, I'm afraid!
  2. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Go team ace! I probably worked that one out like six years ago but it's still true.
  3. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    TW FOR EX-GAY SHIT AND MY LOCAL SCHOOL DISTRICT BEING FUCKHEADS http://unicornbooty.com/blog/2012/02/02/md-high-school-distributes-ex-gay-therapy-flyer-to-students/ http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2012/02/02/417707/maryland-school-distruptes-ex-gay-propaganda-to-students/...
  4. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Uh, he's a gay Republican. A gay Republican in a party that spends all of its energy these days on eroding the rights of anyone not a Christian rich white cis heterosexual man. He'd probably get more votes running as a sparkly unicorn, no matter his politics. He seems like a decent dude...
  5. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Ughhh. If you need internet hugs, I can provide :|b @DIZ: Intent is not magic. It's not like that's a difficult thing to realise is something that is not appropriate to say.
  6. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    And some states are doing their best to force people to prove that they are a citizen before getting emergency care. So. There's that.
  7. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    The difference is that the mafia would then set the fires. There, they're just waiting for it to happen on its own.
  8. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    You know, some towns in the US have opt-in fire departments. You have to pay an annual fee for the fire department to come to your house.
  9. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Then I don't think you're actually against socialism.
  10. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    You know, in the US, you have to pay to use an ambulance.
  11. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Still, pretending that the US south is the problem and that everything'd be just fine and dandy without the US south is not at all helpful. Particularly since there are plenty of people who aren't assholes from the south!
  12. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    That's not necessary and is probably actively harmful. Please don't equate bigot with southerner.
  13. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Hey, Harlequin? Could you stop with the hipster misogyny? It's incredibly irritating.
  14. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Most schools won't have out teachers. That doesn't mean anything about their quiltbag statuses. But more to the point, it doesn't matter if whoever you have as a sponsor is LGBT as long as they're willing to be your advocate whenever you need them. Talk to whoever's sponsoring the GSA...
  15. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    As I said, get at least one teacher on your side. If you're worried about the PE teachers being useless, then tell whoever your staff contact is that you're concerned and see if they'll do something about it.
  16. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Zero-tolerance bullying policies unfortunately rarely work. I think the GSA at my high school was fairly successful? As far as I know, no one was bullied over it or anything. And there was something approaching a safe space. Just make sure you've got at least one teacher on your side...
  17. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    :/ Eh. It's common, yeah. I don't know. Just ... eh.
  18. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I mean that queer is not always a blanket term. o_o It can be used for everyone non-cisgendered heterosexual, but I at least mostly see it used for genderqueer.
  19. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Nah. 'Queer' isn't always used as a blanket term, and it also doesn't really include the A.
  20. surskitty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Me too! It's much more inclusive. And it's a word! And everyone likes quilts, right?!
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